Facing the death of a loved one is an incomparable emotional challenge. When your loved one’s End of Life is imminent, allow yourself to be present with them. Focus on the time you have together. This can enrich your relationship and provide meaning, peace and comfort to both of you at this important, inevitable time.
Help your loved one gather those who are closest to them. Remember to reach out for support for yourself and your own family too.
Consider gathering these people when a loved one’s End of Life is near:
- Close family and friends
- Healthcare proxy and/or Will executor
- Hospice or palliative care providers
- Religious or spiritual advisors
- Therapists, counselors or psychologists
Each person’s emotional needs differ in the final stages of life. Many worry about loss of control and dignity as their physical abilities decline. Some fear being a burden to their loved ones yet also fear being alone.
Your loved one’s physical strength and cognitive functions may diminish, yet their capacity to feel peaceful and secure may remain. They may no longer recognize you, but may draw comfort from your companionship, touch or the sound of your voice.
Late-stage caregivers can offer emotional comfort in the following ways:
- Provide company
Talk to your loved one, read to them or simply sit and hold their hand